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Upon moving and living in so many different homes post college, I’ve whittled down my book collection to a few favorites.I’ve also started a mini bookstore on to sell the books I no longer want on my shelf., we all know the book – we read it, our parents read it.

They have a place in many people’s lives and many young Christians have raved about how it really shaped their future marriage and their relationships. Many young Christian teenagers will enter into dating relationships with the pressure of “THIS IS IT, YOU BETTER BE THE ‘ONE’ AND I WILL MAKE SURE OF IT” and poo-pooing the idea that maybe you have several boyfriends/girlfriends before you meet the person you marry.

The reality is that you will change significantly throughout your prime dating years and there are some things you cannot learn until you’ve run into them face to face in a relationship.

Among them were two Joshua Harris books about dating and courtship.

As much as I value seeking God first in romantic relationships and biblical dating, I think at some age, you begin to realize that the Joshua Harris style courtship and dating may work for some, but is overall a very bad way to approach relationships, especially if you start reading his books at 13 years old in youth group.

This week we are joining with Life After I Kissed Dating Goodbye to share stories about how Joshua Harris’s book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has impacted us.

You can read more stories at Life After and discuss on Twitter using the hashtag #IKDGStories. I was like 8 or 10 or something innocuous and the thought of boys and kissing was still gross (ew, spit).

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Some of you have stumbled across my blog in direct response to your google searches of “never been kissed” “friendationship” or “i kissed dating goodbye.” (Yes, I see google searches, including you, little mermaid porn).

As romantic and pure as it seems to marry your first girlfriend and save your first kiss for the altar, the societal norms are changing in such a way that it is making it harder and harder for young teen Christians to hold fast to that expectation.

I am still a huge believer of only dating people you can see yourself marrying, but I am also a victim of the Harris-ian mentality gone wrong.

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