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There’s a fine line in the space between “boy” and “friend.” And in that little space, there can be a whole lot of drama, mixed signals, and hurt feelings.You love your best boy friend, but you’ve never quite thought of him in that way.

You two are done, and it’s been years since you were a thing.

If he tries to intervene and keep you away from his friend, you go right ahead and put him in his place. HOWEVER (and it is a big however), guys dating the ex of a friend is one of the unspoken grey areas in what most call “Guy Code.” If you and your ex were together for a long time, this will make it even more complicated.

Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.

They wholeheartedly believe that it's wrong, disrespectful, and if a friend did that to them, they'd never talk to that person again.

It is going to take a lot of understanding in terms of how your ex feels about you and how strong his friendship is with the guy you’re interested in.

But there are a few points you should consider: First and foremost, your ex doesn’t really get a say in terms of who you can and can’t date.

Sometimes people date the ex's friend as a form of retaliation. Except, of course, that stinking jerk who dumped you. —Ask The forbidden fruit always looks juicy and delicious (insert Eden pun here) but not all that glitters is gold.

The question is whether you can act on that sweet sound of "click." First and foremost, let's make sure you have good intentions. You're the smartest, funniest and best dressed at the office—everyone is mad crushing on you. Gee whiz, that hottie friend of your ex seems to notice . It's a mess to be sure, but that's different than being a horrible person We don’t own people; we just share our time with them . A great relationship, and great chemistry between two people, can be rare to come by.

Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.

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