Dating 2 women at once

We’re all looking for love: the big kind, the one that will change the world as we know it. The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.

We spend so much of our time waiting, searching, and going through the motions of dating until we find what we’re looking for. One of them may have the best sense of humor; the other may be incredibly witty and smart.

I’ll know when my heart tells me which one of these guys is the right one.

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I had previously dabbled in it during down periods before, but never seriously.

I did not have high hopes, but sent out a number of emails and ended up meeting two of the women in person.

We were together 2 1/2 yrs and then broke up bc of stress and distrust.

He met a girl during that time, but didn't end it when he came back to me and we were trying to work things out.

By the end of this week I will have had dinner with each of them 3 times (no sex yet, as I would want that in the context of a more committed situation), in addition to getting-to-know-you phone calls and emails with each of them proposing activities we could do in the future of our relationship -- meaning that they are both open to a relationship.

I am starting to feel guilty seeing both of them at the same time, but do not feel that I have more of a connection with one than the other just yet.

I am a professional in my mid-30s with a terrific career (that probably consumed too much time) and a history of long, rewarding relationships that have for one reason or other not ended in marriage.

I moved to a new city for career reasons and decided to give online dating a try.

I also have not yet broached the topic of whether I am one of several guys that they are seeing from the same website or if they are seeing me exclusively.

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